Okay to hang out with his roommate?

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Registered: 06-07-2007
Okay to hang out with his roommate?
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Mon, 08-10-2009 - 1:27pm

Hi everyone,
A guy I had been dating for around 5 months recently broke up with me. The break up was relatively smooth, meaning, he broke it off because I just didn't seem to be the "one". That's a whole other story. While we were dating though, I hung out with his one guy friend and we seemed to have a connection (not exactly sure what). However, the semester coming up, his friend will be living with him. Right after we broke up and we decided to be friends I asked my ex if he thought his friend would still want to hang out with me. He said yeah he would. I was thinking I would message/call his friend during the first week of class to see if he would want to get together. I think he would want to, but I don't know if I am being a creeper. Do you all think it would be okay and if the guy would want to hang out with me. Right before we parted ways for the summer he gave me a book I had mentioned I wanted to read. If so, should I wait for the first week of classes when everyone is a little more settled in?

Thanks! <3

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Registered: 07-17-2009
Wed, 08-12-2009 - 12:18pm
Yeah, you should wait for the first week of classes to see him. Are you going to be seeing him around school at all anyways without having to contact him? If you ever flirt with him, he'll probably just ask you out instead of you having to suggest something.