Loves Me Not?

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Loves Me Not?
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Mon, 08-10-2009 - 2:51pm

So heres the story. I've been exclusive with a guy for just over 2 months. I'm under a LOT of stress right now and was really bitchy and overly sensitive to him last night. Any time I get upset, he withdrawls from me.This is his week with his son, so I came over to his place at lunch to talk because we went to bed peeved at eachother last night b/c of my behavior.

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Registered: 12-03-2006
Fri, 08-14-2009 - 8:09pm

I know it takes time to fall in love. While you may not be in love now, you still may later. When someone tells you he'll never fall in love with you, it's a bad thing, IMHO. It sounds like you have a nice rs now, if you can enjoy it for what it is and as long as he cont to be nice to you, then go for it but in the mean time keep your self open to other opportunities, 1) you won't be emotionally committed to someone who isn't to you and 2) you may meet someone who will be capable of loving you and wanting to be with you the rest of his life.


That's what I would do b/c I'm not good at going cold turkey. If you're strong, you may just want to take a break and see how he reacts. Sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it.