Fear of relationships causing impotence?
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Fear of relationships causing impotence?
| Tue, 08-18-2009 - 7:33pm |
I'm 28 y.o.
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| Wed, 08-19-2009 - 10:59am |
I would suggest that he get some therapy if he feels that this is a psychological problem. He needs to deal w/ it if he ever wants to have another rel. in his life. I wouldn't have patience if someone didn't deal w/ their issues and get help.
| Thu, 08-20-2009 - 2:22pm |
I remembering experiencing the same type of thing. What I needed was time to become comfortable with her and get over the fears and nervousness and then I was fine. So I'd say just give him some time, you have only been dating for a month. He will come around.
| Sun, 08-23-2009 - 5:36pm |
He may need therapy. However, I would use it only as a last resort. Men really hate therapy. It makes us feel weak. Believe me, the last thing that he needs right now is to feel weak. It seems like that other woman really did a number on him. I feel bad for the both of you. It must be very stressful. He needs your emotional support right now. Try stroking his ego. Tell him how much you love him. Tell him how great he is. Tell him that you fantasize about him making love to you. Talk dirty to him. Sometimes a man just needs to have his ego stroked. Men are ego driven creatures. When they feel bad about themselves, they have trouble functioning. That includes erections. You might also want to try initiating sex. Try pulling his zipper down and sliding your hand in for a feel. Give it a good gentle massage. If that doesn't work, try pulling it out and give him a little oral. It seems kinky, but it might work. That is the kind of thing that a man responds to. I hope that my advice helps. Good luck!
