Is he blowing me off?

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Registered: 08-18-2009
Is he blowing me off?
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Tue, 08-18-2009 - 7:52pm

I've been dating a guy for almost a month. We've known each other for several years through mutual friends. In the past three weeks we've gone out four or five times. We've had fun each time and I think he's into me. The thing is that I went on vacation out of the country for a week last week and just got back yesterday. It's been 8 days since we've seen each other, but the last time I saw him, the date ended really well. We chatted for an hour on the computer yesterday after I got back from vacation When we ended the conversation he said "I'll give you a call this week".

I'm not sure if he's blowing me off by giving me a somewhat vague answer or if I'm reading too far into it. I was worried that me going on vacation so early into this would blow the momentum. I was hoping he'd try to make plans with me when we chatted yesterday, but all he said was that he'd call this week. Any insight?

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 2:03pm

I don't know that I have any major insight on this, but I don't think it sounds like he's blowing you off. I think if he's really into you, the momentum won't be lost by a mere week apart.

Just give him a little time...he may not want to be crowding you, ya know? I think it sounds promising really.

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Registered: 07-17-2009
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 12:07pm
It really sounds too early to tell. Give him some time and see if he calls you later on this week. It just sounds like he's saying the typical casual thing that a lot of guys say when they intend to get in touch with you at some point. I also know of some guys who don't want to come off as too interested. Either way, it still sounds promising.
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Registered: 08-20-2009
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 7:59pm

He's probably wondering who you met and what you did on vacation!


Guys are pretty insecure. Why not give him a boost and