First meeting....

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
First meeting....
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 6:51am

Sooo,,i'm back in the dating game, and i'm trying to do this the "right" way this time,,and not rush into anything.

Anyways, I have been emailing with this man for about 2 days, and he finally asked if we could meet for a coffee and maybe a walk around the lake where I live.
Now, he emailed me this question while I was at work and didn't get it till I got home at 10:30 at night.
I told him I thought that would be nice and asked when. He responded "now".

I was a bit shocked at that late of night, and responded that I was just getting ready for bed as I had to be back to work early this morning (not lying). And to call or text me later in the day today.

What am I to think?? Was he just eager to meet me or do you think he just wanted to try to maybe get some bootie??

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 11:40am
Yes, I think it's a little odd that anyone would expect a stranger to meet up w/ them at 10:30 at night. I mean, are the coffee shops open that late? And were you going to walk around the lake in the dark? I don't think so.
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Registered: 07-17-2009
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 12:12pm
Man, that sounds late to meet up. I have some friends who like to do daytime stuff that late at night but most people know that it's not normal for working people to do that. I don't know...I would be suspicious too. I think the only thing you can do is see how he acts when you see him in person. Any guy I've met who asked me to meet that late and who was looking for a booty call usually showed me his true colors right away. Usually by being too pushy and touchy feely.