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Separated men
| Fri, 08-21-2009 - 1:29pm |
I'm on OLD and I live on the state line between CT and NY, so I've dated a few guys from NY. In CT, you can get divorced pretty fast, but it seems to take forever in NY. Therefore, on Match, there are a lot of separated guys, but they have been separated for, like, forever (I actually got divorced in RI...90 days from start to finish).
One guy has been emailing me and he seems really great, he's in NY and separated. Part of me is very interested, part of me is kind of leery...He's been separated for quite some time in in the divorce process (court, I guess) and seems to have moved on.
Is this worth pursuing, or would I be setting myself up for disaster? I usually avoid separated guys.

I think it's a good rule of thumb to avoid separated men.
Don't be to quick to judge the separated thing.
I'm with Sheri on this one.
Sometimes there are circumstances but...that is the exception not the rule.