Confused by him

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Confused by him
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Sun, 08-23-2009 - 9:48pm
I met this guy 3 weeks ago on a Friday...we are both regulars at a club. The first week we talked or texted everyday and told me that he had been watching me for quite some time and more then once said how attracted he is to me. Then on the next Friday he came to the club
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Registered: 07-17-2009
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:32pm
Dang...he sounds a little sensitive. Or he has issues with a past girlfriend flirting in front of his face. If you have made all those attempts to reconcile this situation with him and he's still not responding, then maybe you should just give it up for now. If he wants to approach you again some day, then maybe he will. You know, now that I think about it, I had the same thing sort of happen. Where some guy who had a crush on me got mad cause I was talking to other men. Eventually he did end up trying to hook up with me again but by then I wasn't interested anymore, lol.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 1:53pm

Run fast. Run far.

You're not doing anything wrong. He is completely inappropriate and a head case. And a little scary, actually. Can we say "ISSUES"?

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Registered: 10-02-2001
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 5:11am
He's not dating you, doesn't even know you, and he's trying to judge / condemn you for dancing??
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Registered: 10-21-2003
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 4:28pm
I would not follow up on this anymore.
Emily
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Registered: 01-16-2006
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 1:10pm

I dont mean to sound harsh but he's playing games.

~~Ginger~~ :)
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Registered: 04-23-2009
Thu, 09-03-2009 - 7:43pm
Just here to say that I agree ALL THE WAY with Ginger.