Rejected...once again

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2007
Rejected...once again
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Thu, 08-27-2009 - 8:47pm

Hello,


To make a long story short, I was seeing a guy for a year and I broke up with him in February.

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Registered: 06-01-2009
Thu, 08-27-2009 - 10:53pm

So this guy and you have plans and you don't hear from him and you're still contacting him--when he should be contacting you?


"...so we planned to hang out tonight when i got back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2007
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 9:14am

Hello, thanks for your response :)


When I texted him the night before, I thought maybe he didn't get it which is why when he started talking to me the next day I thought I would bring it up again and see what he would say...obviously nothing.

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 9:50am
Also most to all of the women you see posting here have multiple instances of men ghosting and disappearing on them. Even after seemingly good or great dates from their perspective. So do not feel alone in this regard. I don't know if its too much of a generalization to make to I would say that the younger you are the more the guys in your target age group are going to be flaky and just looking to "have fun".
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Registered: 01-16-2006
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 11:06am

Hi, I'm new to this board in ivillage, but, i just wanted to say to you that i know

~~Ginger~~ :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2007
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 11:16am

Thanks Ginger!


I have read that book and I really liked it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2009
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 12:32pm
Honestly, it is amazing how many of us on here have written about being treated and rejected by men the same way you have. It's unfortunately a common think we have to deal with when dating. But it really does make you stronger and you eventually learn how to judge how a man is going to act before you start to get attached. Just keep all this as a learning experience and look forward to all the cool guys you WILL meet. You're going to eventually find one who doesn't disrespect you. And some that rejected you will end up wanting you back. Happens often..although it's usually too late for them. Too bad.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2006
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 12:33pm

We all do it though.

~~Ginger~~ :)