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| Wed, 09-02-2009 - 11:23pm |
So, I'm a little war torn from the past year of dating. I'm skeptical of anything male. But right before I left for college I was hanging out with a guy back home. He is a really sweet guy but I really enjoy talking to him and I always get excited when he calls. However, I see things in him that I am not sure about. Like he's a total people pleaser and he gets emotionally attached easily. I have never met a guy like that before. Normally they are self-centered and on and off disinterested.
I don't want a relationship right now, but I want to see where it goes. I just don't know if I should give up on him because I am a little skeptical. I'm not sure if he is too dull. I know that he is really shy and it takes him awhile to open up. When he does open up though, he is pretty similar to me on an emotional level. I don't think that I have experienced that before. I usually experience a connection on an intellectual level or similar humor. So I am intrigued.
He is planning on visiting me in a few weeks. I agreed and he is going to sleep on the couch. It is mostly plutonic. We can tell that we like each other, but I'm just scared he will come here and he will annoy me or something. I just don't know if I am being negative or putting up walls. I guess I'm nervous he won't click with my friends and it'll be awkward. I don't know. Should I let him visit to see what happens?
| Wed, 09-02-2009 - 11:24pm |
| Thu, 09-03-2009 - 10:17am |
