When you pick the wrong choice

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-03-2009
When you pick the wrong choice
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Thu, 09-03-2009 - 12:16pm
What to do after a major screw up and wanting to be able to hang out as friends.?
My next door neighbor and i dated for maybe four months well i broke up with him for this popular guy in my grade. Welll things didnt work out and he basically didnt like me. so i went to date my neighbor again and things were on and off through out the year and then this past summer he went after this slutty girl so i got jealous and told him to give him me a call when thinks didnt work out which was really mean. Well just now i saw him in the hall and he cracked his neck and then gave me a head shake with his head. He said that we could nexer hand out as friends again and that things have changed how do i change them back? I know i did him wrong and i feel bad but what do i do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2009
Fri, 09-04-2009 - 6:50am

My next door neighbor and i dated for maybe four months well i broke up with him for this popular guy in my grade

To me it looks like he figures as you dumped him for someone else and is hurt by your actions so would just rather not associate with you. Its the exact type of advice that is given out to women when men act so callously towards them. He has pride and so it seems that he is just not into being treated as disposable.
Move on IMO, he doesnt look like wanting another go around with you after this experience.

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