how to ask....

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-09-2009
how to ask....
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Sun, 09-06-2009 - 10:06pm

Ok, it's no secret, It's driving me nuts that I am not really sure where

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Registered: 12-03-2006
In reply to: honnee09
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 8:04pm

you didn't give information about how frequently you see each other and the intensity of the RS. I assume here that you see each other several times a week and are exclusive? If this is the case then you should bring up the subject of where you're heading. I would preface with "we've been dating for a year. Are we a couple?" Then straight out ask if he see marriage in the future. I don't see any way around this (assuming you've been seriously dating) - if you just see each other off/on with no indication of exclusivity then it's different.

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Registered: 04-09-2009
In reply to: honnee09
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 8:58pm

Let's see if I can clear up some of your questions.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
In reply to: honnee09
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 4:09pm
You're definitely WAY more patient then I could ever be! At this point, you've been together for a decent amount of time. Personally, I'm the type of person if something is on my mind, I might try to hold it in...But eventually I just blurt it out.