A Guy I Like Went Missing
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| Thu, 09-10-2009 - 12:06am |
Dear Readers,
I met this man almost 3 wks ago. We shared some common friends together and he asked me out 2 times with them before he came nearby my office to have lunch with me. He's amazing to me.. I felt that there's chemistry between us and he made me laugh. I felt that he connected with me intellectually and we shared same passion for outdoor. We exchanged blackberry messages quite often throughout the day. This happen for just a wk after he asked me out with friends for the first time.
Last Saturday, he asked me out of what seemed like a double date with his close friend and another girl. I had fun even though I was pretty tired and maybe it showed.. the other gal said that he seemed to be very sweet to me. After we went home, he blackberry message me again. Then, he told me that he just got a good time again today (the 3rd time he said that in a wk). He said that his signal wasn't too good and I told him that he could call me if he wants too. But, he didn't and so I went to sleep.
The next day on Sunday, I went out with my group of friends. Accidentally, I met our common friends and they wanted to join me since they also got nothing to do. So I messaged him if he would like to come along since his friends are with me now. He replied that he had to meet his dad and afraid that it would be too late for me to wait for him. And I haven't hear from him since then..
Just for my thought, he seems to be a sensitive guy. He asked me before if he made me bored by having lunch with him. Or that time when I think he knew I went out on a date with this other guy, he didn't reply my message because it took me 2 hours to reply his. On Sunday, when his friends met me I was with 3 single guys friends and a couple.
Now it's the 4th day since I asked him if he would like to join me and some friends for dinner. I don't know if I should contact him first.. According to the talks in this board, there's no use for a girl to contact a guy first if he goes missing because she won't know how much he would put an effort to be with her. Does this apply to my situation?
I need your inputs..

I'm familiar with the advice given here--I've used it and also ignored it, upon occasion, myself.
I'm reluctant to tell you what to do.
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