Asked to do a threesome

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Registered: 09-22-2009
Asked to do a threesome
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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 8:29am
Hi all,
I'm a lil embarrassed by this. I've been dating someone I met online for the past two months. He lives a few hours away and we've only been on three dates. We text almost everyday. But my alarm bells have been going off ever since he started cancelling dates saying he has a busy schedule. Yesterday we started joking about celebrities and somehow the conversation got around to threesomes. I told him that even though I've never done it, it would be be sometime that I thought would have to be tried with someone I completely trusted or complete strangers and that honestly even though I could talk about it, I would probably chicken out. He then asked me to be part of a threesome with him. I said no and he hasnt texted me back. It was late anyway so I may or may not hear back from him today, too early to tell.
Now I don't know what to think. Should I even bother with this guy? He seemed to be nice gentle and respecting in the beginning. Now it seems like everything is about sex and less about getting to know each other.
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Registered: 10-02-2001
Wed, 09-23-2009 - 2:42am
Unless you're interested in nothing but a sexcapade, run, don't walk away from this one.
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Registered: 06-05-2008
Wed, 09-23-2009 - 1:41pm
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Registered: 09-22-2009
Wed, 09-23-2009 - 9:53pm
Thank you both. Its approaching two days and not a word. In a way I'm relieved and making plans for the weekend.