Intentions

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Registered: 10-02-2009
Intentions
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Fri, 10-02-2009 - 3:54pm
I started going on dates with this one guy over the past few weeks. He seems nice and we get along pretty well. He's growing on me and everything. However, I'm not sure what his intentions are. If just wants sex, company, or something more. I am unsure because I met him on a dating website and on his profile he has a lot of questions about sex. Some of the questions are asking if you enjoy meaningless sex or open relationships. I guess he may be asking because he is curious or he doesn't want something like that. I have no idea. He never asked me to answer them and we never discussed them or anything He has other questions though too about political opinions, intelligence, etc. He hasn't tried to have sex with me yet or anything. He seems interested in getting to know me, I just have issues with trusting guys. Are there any red flags that may indicate that he just wants sex? He told me that he likes me because of my perspective, and how easy it is to talk to me, and that I seem laid back. Maybe he actually enjoys spending time with me for other reasons?
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Registered: 05-06-2008
In reply to: franny_zooey
Fri, 10-02-2009 - 5:07pm

If he was really after you for sex he probably would have already suggested it, or pressured you for it.

Where did you meet him, OKCupid? They have tons of sex questions on that site. Most guys I met on that site answered them but thought a lot were ridiculous. A couple confessed about being half in the bag when they answered them.

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Registered: 10-02-2009
In reply to: franny_zooey
Fri, 10-02-2009 - 5:17pm

Haha, wow you are right on. I did meet him through OkCupid. That makes me feel a lot better actually.

Thanks! <3

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Registered: 04-12-2004
In reply to: franny_zooey
Sun, 10-04-2009 - 5:14pm

He is definately not in it just for sex.