Simply cannot get him off my mind

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Registered: 02-04-2006
Simply cannot get him off my mind
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Mon, 10-12-2009 - 10:06pm

I met "joe" in late January of 2009. We were on a ski trip, and, well, there was quite the attraction between us. We basically had a fling that weekend, and I think we really liked each other.

Since then, all this drama has happened between me and the small group of people we hung out with that weekend, summing up to the fact that I don't speak with any of them, including Joe, anymore. It all stemmed from the fact Joe and I hooked up that weekend. I think some jealousy was involved for various reasons, but these people who seemed friendly, well I think they completely misconstrued things I did and said behind my back to Joe.

Joe and I were never able to connect after these incidents. I had given him my number, and he never called. Again, I think a lot of it has to do with misinformation his two friends told him about me- not 100% true as I have no idea what all has been said and done, but it is what my instinct has told me. I'm crushed that he and I never got to get together...I can never get him off of my mind. :o(

Is there anything I can do to try to reconnect without losing my pride or looking crazy?

Thanks. :o(

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 7:47pm

I personally would let it go.