is it time to get physical?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2005
is it time to get physical?
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Wed, 10-21-2009 - 4:20pm

I've been dating a guy for about a month now.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
Sun, 10-25-2009 - 9:15pm

So, my question is, do the rules change when you've known someone so long?


I'm confused. What rules are you talking about?


I have lots of questions. How old are you? How well do you know this man? What sort of relationship are you seeking? Same question for him. And what are you doing in his bed if you don't want sex? And why ask what the rules are if you said:


We've spent the night together, but nothing has happened, strictly sleep and cuddling, which he initiates...yay!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2004
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 1:36pm

I would let him take his time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2005
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 5:37pm

By rules I meant, not literal rules but,

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2004
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 6:36pm

This clarifies things alot to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 8:36pm
Clarifies things for me, too. I respect it that he's taking it slow, sounds good. Let us know how it goes.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2005
Thu, 10-29-2009 - 2:57pm

Thanks guys.