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| Sat, 10-31-2009 - 9:41am |
I actually met a guy through eHarmony (I know it sounds lame but I kind of like it in a way).
| Sat, 10-31-2009 - 9:41am |
I actually met a guy through eHarmony (I know it sounds lame but I kind of like it in a way).
You're worried about not hearing from a guy who didn't understand "no"?
WHY?
I guess I just felt a real connection with him.
You know, it's kind of like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. You're attracted, you're not ready for full-on sex, but you'd like more than a sweet kiss goodnight. It's a tough balance, I think, especially when you are are at his place or your place. I've decided it's much better (early on) to make out on the hood of a car in the parking lot rather than in your living room, LOL.
You didn't lead him on, but I understand how you feel. You've been honest with him now, so it's just a matter of waiting to see what happens. Hopefully you can get past any awkwardness and get to know each other better. Don't beat yourself up about this.
So well said, had to write and tell you.
Plus, I swear, it doesn't just go away and get easy when you're older. It's still the same ole stuff.
I liked your: "I've decided it's much better (early on) to make out on the hood of a car in the parking lot rather than in your living room."
Yes, and the park works too and also a bench by the river. Right on!
Could be a several reasons, and you may never know, but here's one you might not have thought of.
A woman 'leading a guy on'
Hi Tim,
Thanks so much for your feedback.