conflicted

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Registered: 02-12-2004
conflicted
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Thu, 02-12-2004 - 11:52am
i have been dating this guy for a year now. Lately i have been seeing him less and less and then he started to stop by again more often. I attribute alot of absences to his problems that he is going through. But anyways the problem is he recently got a new cell phone and today i asked if he had a picture phone. He said yes and flipped it open, well when he did a picture of another woman came on and he took it off real quick. I asked him who that was and he said "oh that's my friend ___ , i must of missed her call." Well naturally my mind started to think things. How come after a year of exchanging i love yous with him he doesn't even have a picture of me on his phone but has one of her if she is just a friend? He has regular pictures of me, I asked him he had to be in front of her to take that picture and he said yes. So now I am wondering is that where his extra time was spent..while i was home alone waiting for him to stop by or even to call me. Or am I just being paranoid? HELP because i feel like this could be ended this weekend.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: jmcelligott
Thu, 02-12-2004 - 1:28pm
I'm wondering why you sit around waiting for him to show up. Get up and live your life. He's not the last man you will ever meet. Make yourself busy so that he's required to schedule time with you if he wants to see you.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jmcelligott
Thu, 02-12-2004 - 1:34pm
I would need to know if you are exclusively dating and if no then why not and whether you want to. I don't care how many ILY's were exchanged if you have no formal commitment.