The Email that changed Everything...
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The Email that changed Everything...
| Thu, 02-12-2004 - 1:35pm |
I am in quite a predicament...the thing is,my now, ex-boyfriend and I have agreed for the past month on a mutual agreement that we would both just enjoy the last semester of our college years. However, I was the one that brought up the subject. I asked him, that if this relationship was holding him back in any way, that I wouldnt want him to regret his last year of college because of the relationship. Due to his response in saying that he has not had a fulfilling time, I let him go. I did not want him to have any regrets. His intent after the agreement was to just socialize and party more, however, not to hook up with other girls. He said girls were not on his agenda. However, just recently, I have been having this intuition that something has been going on with him and another girl so I looked in his sent email, and I saw a letter that he wrote to another girl that clearly reveals his feelings for her. And this was 5 days after our break! In the letter it states, that he goes to her work at late night waiting for her to get off, and with that bringing her food. He also claims that "having gone from having a girlfriend to breaking up with her, I've have been thinking alot about, you (the other girl)" Lastly, he states in the letter that she lives in her own little world, and he is now welcoming her into the doorsteps of his. I am completely bothered by this, as you can imagine. However, when I asked him about him having feelings for any girl whether small or big, he just denies it, saying they are only friends. I dont want to bring up that I went into his email but my question is how can I get him on this? Will he ever admit it? Will he ever tell me the truth? and is this a rebound from being in a 3 and 1/2 year relationship? He was not like this, is it because he is still only 21, and all of a sudden he needs to be free? Please help. I dont know what to do.I am soooo lost :(

Sometimes people do need to "be free".
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over someone else so quickly after your break! He may have been emotionally unfaithful to you for a good while before the break. There are lots of guys out there! keep looking!