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| Fri, 02-13-2004 - 5:56pm |
i just wwanted to thank all of you for your responses and support. i have another dillema now:
i recently talked to my ex and she said that she just wasnt ready for a relationship because she was all mixed up emotionally. she said that she cares for me alot and loves me and misses me. she said that she isnt knocking the future for "us" if i wasnt seeing anyone.
the problem is that i just don't believe her. i love her alot and i would want to be with her, but i dont want to hang on to the notion that she will ever think about dating me again. should i just forget about her and move on, or should i wait things out and see where they go? will this space that she is getting affect her feelings for me?
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| Fri, 02-13-2004 - 6:20pm |
When someone says they need space and they plan on being open to dating others, I walk away emotionally and otherwise and move on although I let the person know that he can contact me if and when he changes his mind and if I am still interested and available I will consider it. If the person wants time apart and doesn't want to date others because of feelings for me I would find that more legitimate and while I still would move on and not hold out much hope I would trust the other person's motives in wanting space.
