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i like my student teacher
| Fri, 02-13-2004 - 9:18pm |
hey everyone,
i have a slight problem...I am 19 years old and in college.. I have a crush on my student teacher. hes really friendly with everyone...he jokes around with other people too, even a couple other girls (basically those who dont get offended by his jokes--but its mostly with the guys) .but for some reason, i have this weird feeling that sometimes he notices me more than some of the other girls... i am pretty sure he feels that we both have the same sense of humor, he acknowledged my humor in a paper i wrote(it had nothing to do with the paper--it was just a side note to him)...he is about 24 years old...so not too old..., the other girls in my class dont really joke back with him too much.. its not a big thing but hey, it could be something to get started with right? during this study session, there were 3 empty seats and he sat next to me..prior to his arrival that the study session, this girl in my class goes "hes gonna sit next to you, he likes you" and someone else said the same thing that he gets along with me .... do people notice things that i dont? ..anyway he also had turned the other way to talk to this guy about a teacher, and i dont like her so i go "ew" and he turned around and smiles at me real big...anyways... im really happy around him.. i feel really good about myself...y? how do i know if its like/lust/love? my stomach flips when i think of him, when i hear songs i feel like dancing and i lose my appetite sometimes when i miss him...how do i know if he likes me back...? sometimes he talks to me a lot, sometimes a little, but hes always finds something to joke about, whether its something i said or did a week or so before, or recent...how do i know if he finds me attractive at least? not to be vain, but i think i am attractive..i feel attractive around him... and i keep myself well-maintained..if he were to like me, im sure hed be as afraid as i am, rite? sometimes i get that gut feeling that he likes me, but maybe its because i just want him to like me....okay thanks a lot...sorry so long... please reply..
-michelle."
i have a slight problem...I am 19 years old and in college.. I have a crush on my student teacher. hes really friendly with everyone...he jokes around with other people too, even a couple other girls (basically those who dont get offended by his jokes--but its mostly with the guys) .but for some reason, i have this weird feeling that sometimes he notices me more than some of the other girls... i am pretty sure he feels that we both have the same sense of humor, he acknowledged my humor in a paper i wrote(it had nothing to do with the paper--it was just a side note to him)...he is about 24 years old...so not too old..., the other girls in my class dont really joke back with him too much.. its not a big thing but hey, it could be something to get started with right? during this study session, there were 3 empty seats and he sat next to me..prior to his arrival that the study session, this girl in my class goes "hes gonna sit next to you, he likes you" and someone else said the same thing that he gets along with me .... do people notice things that i dont? ..anyway he also had turned the other way to talk to this guy about a teacher, and i dont like her so i go "ew" and he turned around and smiles at me real big...anyways... im really happy around him.. i feel really good about myself...y? how do i know if its like/lust/love? my stomach flips when i think of him, when i hear songs i feel like dancing and i lose my appetite sometimes when i miss him...how do i know if he likes me back...? sometimes he talks to me a lot, sometimes a little, but hes always finds something to joke about, whether its something i said or did a week or so before, or recent...how do i know if he finds me attractive at least? not to be vain, but i think i am attractive..i feel attractive around him... and i keep myself well-maintained..if he were to like me, im sure hed be as afraid as i am, rite? sometimes i get that gut feeling that he likes me, but maybe its because i just want him to like me....okay thanks a lot...sorry so long... please reply..
-michelle."
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| Sat, 02-14-2004 - 11:53am |
Even if he likes you, it would not be appropriate or even ethical to act on his feelings at this time. There could be professional repercussions to his acting on his interest. When the semester is over there is nothing wrong with stopping by to 'ask about your grade' and ask him for coffee. Right now it's not appropriate to follow up on this.
