Guys-help me out on this one please!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2004
Guys-help me out on this one please!!
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Sat, 02-14-2004 - 3:48pm
Got a little delimma-met a great guy-went out on 2 dates that went good-nothing physical has happened on 1st two dates except he gave me a hug goodnite-then he asked me out again-3rd date went to party with another couple-me getting impatient decided to make 1st move since it didnt look like he was going to -after i invited him to come inside for a little bit-totally innocent intentions here-he declined since it was getting late so i asked if i could have goodnite kiss-he said sure-leaned over gave me quick kiss on lips which was kinda awkward-i dont remember if i said anything when i got out of the car except bye-got out of car as fast as i could get into my place-now feel weird-not sure what to do-this was last weekend-havent talked to him this week-before it happened he said he call me sometime-he also mentioned earlier in evening that i looked good that nite-and previously he said he thought i was very cute so i assume he was attracted to me? also he said previously he was looking forward to getting to know me better-what should i do? do u think he is still interested in me? or maybe hes just shy -thought wait after v-day over with since too much pressure-please reply

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 02-14-2004 - 4:42pm
I don't think he's that into you. Usually I wait for the guy to make the first move and I don't think it's odd at all that he didn't make a move on dates one or two. I have been complimented on my looks by many men who never made a move and never called me again. Personally what I would do is from now on wait for the man to make the first move and just be warm and open and approachable and let the man do most of the pursuing in the beginning. But that's just my approach.