kicking myself!!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
kicking myself!!
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Sat, 02-14-2004 - 4:52pm
Oh, I am quite annoyed with myself today. I saw the guy that I am seriously interested in today, driving, I was driving, we were going opposite directions. As we approached each other, I realized it was him, and made a goofy face and pretended not to see him. What is my problem? Sure, I just got out of a pretty bad, long-term relationship, and he is just getting out of a marriage, but that is no excuse to act like a friekin teenager. I acted like I didnt see him, drove right past him as if I wasnt aware of him. I need my head examined, I dont know why I do these things, I just get sooo nervous. And to make matters worse, I think he was smiling a little when I looked at him. I think he did see me!
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anonymous user
Sat, 02-14-2004 - 8:51pm
Don't fret. Forget about it. Next time you see him, just gather your nerves up, and smile at him and say hello.

I've done this too. It's all normal. You're not crazy. You just like him and you want to get to know him but your nerves and fear are causing you to react this way to him.

Just ignore it and don't sweat it. Smile at him and say hello next time.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 02-14-2004 - 11:27pm

Hi


Don't sweat the small stuff. You were thrown and reacted out of surprise and a little fear.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sun, 02-15-2004 - 8:32am
Thanks. I will be trying to use this as a lesson for future times when I run into him. I think it was the "surprise" that got me. Pen