Love triangle
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Love triangle
| Sun, 02-15-2004 - 4:41pm |
I've currently been with my bf for almost four years now and living together for almost three. I met this other guy last year around November. He really likes me,and I find myself starting to really like him. I even wanna be with him more than my own bf sometimes. My bf isn't as attracted to me as when we first got together because I've gained a lot of weight,but this other guy makes me feel so good about myself,a feeling i haven't felt in a long time. He really makes me feel good and the happiness that one feels in the beginning of a new relationship, I just miss all those feelings. My current bf tho makes me feel lots of love,although I don't think he would ever marry me because he thinks that ruins relationships(Based on his fathers experiences)and I don't think he would have kids with me and I know for sure the other guy would love to have kids with me,but i think he would love to have kids with almost anyone right now. I want to go with the new guy,but I am unsure if we will last long. I know with my current bf that we can get through anything and have gotten through lots. I'm just wondering what some of you women out there have done in this kind of situation and how it turned out. I would also love some advice and just someone to talk to. Thanks ladies.

Second, if you do happen to leave your current, I would suggest spending some time alone and not jumping into anything for awhile. Since you've been with him for a few years I would think some time would do you well... Get your mind and heart sorted and then start something with the new guy. If he really has your best interest at heart, he'll wait...
Good luck.