Advice/Question Needed

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Registered: 08-16-2003
Advice/Question Needed
Sun, 02-15-2004 - 7:05pm
I started dating a this guy about 2 weeks ago. I've been out of a 10 month relationship for 2 months and his last long term relationship was a year ago. He is going to be leaving for air force basic training on March 19. We both know whatever we have is going to be temporary. He lives about an hour away so so far we've had 2 dates and this weekend he spent two nights at my place. We have not had sex yet. He says he's just going with the flow. I on the other hand am feeling weird and confused. A part of me knows that I cannot get too attached to this guy, and I probably won't, and I'll just have fun with him while he's here 'cause I like spending time with him. Another part of me feels like I'm being fake and not really being myself because I'm holding back in fear that I will get hurt. Any wisdom to offer? Anyone?