help!

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Registered: 02-15-2004
help!
Mon, 02-16-2004 - 12:01am
I am 41 he is 53. He had been my 4th grade teacher. He lives in CT. I live in WV. Had not seen each other since then. Reconnected on one of those find your old friends websites. Somewhere around his 5th email, after I mentioned I had been in NYC, he wrote: too bad we could not hook up while you were in area. Please send some pics, and I will send you some, so I can see if you are cute as ever. He referd to his girlfriend as my current girlfriend who is puting high pressure on him to get married. He has been divorced for 4 years after a 16 year marriage that he described as almost all miserable. A half dozen men I asked Said that when they use the term current or present girlfriend it usually means the relationship is on the way out. I am very interested in him. I do not want to ruin what is a budding friendship. I do not want to break up a relationship. I feel his emails are somewhat flirty but I am not good at reading between the lines. Do you think he might be interested. Should I let him know clearly that I am interested. Thanx