He will marry me but doesnt want to be?
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He will marry me but doesnt want to be?
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 9:52am |
I have been dating this man for 4 years. I broke up with him because I wanted to get married but he didnt. After 1 week he said he would marry me in 3 years. He also said he did not want to be married but did not want to lose me or see me date others. He has been divorced for 7 years with a 9 yr old son. He is 51. I am 45. At first I was happy about it, but now I am wondering if I am being logical about this. If he doesnt really want to be married, will it work? Am I wrong to think this is the right thing?

If he doesn't want marriage now and you do get married, his excuse for anything can always be "I didn't want this in the first place..." Listen to your gut on this one. Don't push someone into something their heart isn't into--you'll just pay for it later.
Hope this helps.