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Tell Tell Signs?
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 1:18pm |
Ok here is my sitation, I've haven't dated/been in a relationship for 4, now going on 5yrs(finding myself and healing from past relationships). I'm not sure if I'm reading into this more than it should be. It started out as a hello/good moring type thing, which seemed like no problem. Then it turned into he would invite me to lunch with the rest of his friends. At first I resisted, so it was no problem(at least I thought). Well I would stop by the office, just for small talk and leave. Well if I didn't stop by the office, I would sure get a visit once, and maybe twice. I've have recieved compliments on weight lost, and how I carry myself. One week to make sure that maybe I'm not going crazy or wanted this to be more, I didn't go by the office for 3 straight days, well those days I got visits, and some more than once. Now I really don't know this person, and I can't tell if this his personality or if he is trying to get my attention. For the most part I try to keep things low key, but his actions have me curious. I know I've been out of the dating scence for a long time, but I'm not sure where this is going?

to expect you to keep coming around and even to show up when you don't come around, without asking you out or showing what his intent is must be confusing.
if he is the kind of man you would want, he would be able to make those intentions clear to you. it's not your responsibility to ask and i wouldn't do it.
you hardly know this man, don't forget that.