Someone pleaseeeeee help me
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Someone pleaseeeeee help me
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 3:43pm |
I previously posted "Lost Love" and I took all the advice I have gotten into consideration and tried to the best of my ability to carry them out. However, last night I did something I probably would regret for the rest of my life. As I stated before my ex said that the needed to discuss some things with me because he thinks he needs closure in order to stop acting the way he does whenever he hears anything about me. Well last night we spoke and he ended up spending the night which turned out to be intimate. I cried as I was having sex with him becasue I knew that it was just empty sex to him, whereas with me, it meant so much. I woke up this morning feeling horrible, because I really really do still love this man and I know that he doesn't feel the same way about me. He tells me he doesn't want me to be with anyone esle, but he cannot say why. I am so hurt, everytime I think about it I cry. I've been trying since Sept of 2002 to get over this guy and this is the first time we have been intimate since the break up, so I know it is not that, that is keeping me from moving on. I felt like I've been making so much progress, and I felt I was strong enough to withstand him, for which I had done up until last night. Can someone please tell me what I should do? I feel like just crying out to him and asking him to give our relationship another chance, but I don't want him to see me as being weak or feel like I can't do without him, even though that might be the case. Do you think I should ask him what it is that he really wants from me or should I just try and get over the one night and forget about him?
Thanks

I would ask him to contact you if and only if he decides that he is 100% ready to work things out with you.
Sorry, I'm not sure what you're asking...as I said in my previous post, I'd email him to say exactly what I suggested above.