Why don't men call when they say?
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Why don't men call when they say?
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 4:18pm |
All the time, on a consistent basis. Seems like they call you when they want to see you, but when its just to chit chat, they may wait days or weeks. And not even calling back just to have sex with you--because this happens with guys I have never been intimate with. Its just why do they do it period?

most men don't like to just chitchat... so they call when they want to see you.
I can only speak for myself and I know that when I have failed to call when I said I would it was because of a reason. Although, I will admit that most men are not chit-chatters. We just don't have enough words and we use most of them throughout the day and there just aren't any left to chit-chat with.
Men tend to be more "bottom line" type of people. That is to say that there is a reason for calling - such as to tell you that they want to see you. Chit-chatting just isn't high on the male agenda. Getting to see you is. See the difference?
However, that does not excuse not calling if he has said he would - that's a different thing entirely. As Deena said, failing to do what you said you would do without a valid reason (not an excuse - a reason, there is a difference) is showing a lack of respect for you or your time.
tg