sex crazy

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2003
sex crazy
3
Mon, 02-16-2004 - 5:43pm
My boyfriend is driving me nuts. He is being very clingy. I feel like whenever we are together he HAS to be touching me and if I'm not smothering him with attention he pouts "don't you like touching me?" he says. He's not so bad in public but once we are at my house alone together it's like I've sprung a parasitic twin. And EVERYTHING he says is about sex and getting me to have it with him. Me: Do you want to make tacos? Him (in his best spanish accent grabbing my butt): "Oooh, baby let me spice up your tacos!" He wants to kiss constantly and I can't look him in the eye without him giving me the "want to do it?" eyebrow waggle.

I am not a touchy-feely person and his constant begging really puts me off. It's getting to the point where the last thing I want to do is have sex with him. What can I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: crazybean
Mon, 02-16-2004 - 6:08pm
dump him?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: crazybean
Mon, 02-16-2004 - 7:19pm
How long have you been together?


Carrie

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2003
In reply to: crazybean
Mon, 02-16-2004 - 8:36pm
A suggestion: find a guy who's on the same page as you. He is extremely touchy-feely and has a very active libido. You admit you are not touchy-feely and don't feel like sex 24/7. That, to me, spells incompatibility b/c neither of you are going to be fully happy with the other person. He shouldn't need to change so that you can be happy with him, and vice versa. Someone who is right for you will be right for you AS IS.