brother is seeing my bf's ex gf
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brother is seeing my bf's ex gf
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 6:58pm |
My boyfriend and i have been together for almost seven years. In the past we have had problems and been on and off. During our last break up he started to see someone and well that was for less then a month we worked things out and now we are planning on getting married. The problem is that now my brother who is friends with that girl seems too be spending too much time with her. I think they are dating. The other day when i got home i found her in my house and well they weren't doing anything but still i see that something is going on. I talked to my brother and told him i didn't mind if they were seeing eachother (i actually do) but to not bring her here. Am i wrong to get in between? It's just hard to see her, and in my house. My brother seems to like her, how can I go about this?
Ok, now that you have read this and made up your mind as to what to say look @ reply # 3
Edited 2/16/2004 9:53:58 PM ET by atropo2001

Just think of it this way, she was the rebound that didn't last a month and you're the woman in his life. You're the one he runs back to. If your man is being good to you, you're able to work through problems and bounce back, and you're happy, why not hope that your brother and this woman who is alone can hook up and find the same thing.
If she is respectful and kind towards you, why not.