What to do now!!!
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What to do now!!!
| Tue, 02-17-2004 - 10:22am |
I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. We had been arguing a lot. The day after I did it I regreted it so much. We sat down and talked and he said that he had shut his feelings and emotions off for me. He loved but was not in love with me. He said I was verbally abusive towards him...we argued a lot. I didn't realize how much I loved him until I took a step back for these past two weeks. He wants to remain friends I do to I just don't know if it will be hard to. He said that he needs to distance himself from me right now and that his life is a lot less stressful without the arguing. He has some items at my house and I told him that he needs to get them and he acts like no big deal.. My friends say that this is a way for him to leave the door open to come back into my life by leaving his things there. I want him back in my life. Every other break up I have just ended it and that was it. This one I can't get out my mind and have such deep feelings. He has never been friends with an x before either. Could these be signs of maybe getting back together.

I have picked up the phone to call him a million times. Luckily he stopped by last friday and we went out to dinner. I thought that meant we were getting back together. But then I haven't heard from him since then.
I think it would be cool for us to keep in touch. I will give you advice and you do the same for me. My friends are tired of me and you know how that feels I am sure. You just hate to keep calling them.
So tell me about how it all came about and what happened. If you want you can send me your e-mail and we can correspond. My name is Natalie