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| Tue, 02-17-2004 - 11:07pm |
Hello all,
If you would be so kind, I need some help here. Ok....
Last Saturday I went to my sister's last day of work celebration at the pub where she worked. Her boss, with whom she's friends with was obviously there. Well, I know he has been interested in me for a long time, although I'm not quite sure exactly in what way. My sister always mentions that he says "Can't you picture me at the dinner table with your family?", and he also got my nephew to start calling him "Uncle Mike". He told her that he want to settle down soon(he's 40).
Well, at the party I got pretty drunk(which I don't normally do). He was working the bar for most of the night, and then in the final hour of closing, he came and sat down with us. It was all good, we talked, laughed etc. Then, as my sister and her boyfriend were leaving, they asked me what I was going to do(ie. they could drive me home and bring me back to pick up the car the next day). One of the bartenders was having an after party at their house, and I was pretty keen on going to that. So Mike said that he would drive my car, and take me home afterwards. Great! We went to the party, had a great time; I was still sober enough to remember most of the night. I think around 5am he drove me home. He mentioned in the car on the way that he has liked me for a long time. This is also something that I have never done- brought someone home like that, but the attraction was there. I remember chatting for quite some time kind of sitting with my legs in his lap(fully clothed) at this point. We eventually started fooling around. It lasted a couple hours at least, and we were both having a great time. I asked him if he had a condom, and he said yes. Well....the thing is I remember that he couldn't get hard enough, so I am pretty sure that we didn't have sex.
Next thing I know is that it is 9:30am; I wake up and he is gone. Apparently he had hitchhiked home because he had to open the pub. I talked to my sister once I stumbled out of bed, and she said that he didn't want to wake me up, that we had some good conversations, and that he gave me a kiss on the cheek before he left. Well, now I am curious about a couple of things. As I have never done this type of thing before, I am wanting to know if we did actually have sex, and I also think I mentioned something about a situation in my personal life that I should have kept quiet. I tried to call his cell on Monday night(this all happened on Saturday) to talk to him about the aforementioned things. He wasn't there, so I left a message asking him to call back when he could. It is now Tuesday night, and I still haven't heard from him. I spoke with a friend about that night's situation and she said that he could be too embarrased about what happened(or didn't). Thing is I really enjoyed myself, and would like to see him again without the alcohol involved. Could you please give me some insight on what you think he is thinking, and what I should do now?? Thanks for listening.....

....I should also mention that because I don't drink often and am never in the pub, I have only seen him on a couple occasions and he is kind of shy but flirty during those times.