Repercussions of NOT DATING MUCH.....
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Repercussions of NOT DATING MUCH.....
| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 9:05am |
I'm very interested in your opinion:
I have a couple friends who've not really dated around much at all and are thinking of marrying their 1st or 2nd boyfriends.....
What might happen as a result of not being a more experienced dater these days?
(I'm not just talking about sex, but the real relationship problems that might surface)....
thanks.

I married my second love and it is a huge regret; I didn't know what I didn't know. As a matter of fact, in my huge hometown- there are more high school sweetheart marriages than in any other surrounding area. Most of the girls that I know who have done this, are now (say 4 - 5 years into the marriage) seeing their husbands wanting to go out with the boys all of the time, the guys are cheating out of curiosity, they are growing up and growing apart, etc. But I don't mean to sound negative- I'm just sharing what I'm seeing. I know one couple who is still very happily married and none of these shannigans are going on.
I guess I think that it is better for both sexes to date around. Seems like marrying your first or second love is the path to least resistance, if you will. I know that it was for me.
But again, I am not speaking for everyone!