shy guys-don't act. a question.
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shy guys-don't act. a question.
| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 11:28am |
Hi girls,
this is just an observation.
this is just an observation.
Almost all guys that are really nice, are, I find, the ones who are also shy! It feels extremely odd approaching a guy. I wonder whether these guys would *like* a girl to approach them. It is just a little frustrating just waiting for such a guy to start a friendship. And I am talking about guys who give out that look of "interest" but still don't do anything.

Hey
When I met DH he was very shy and he was checking me out but didn't pursure for he assumed that I already had a BF for he told me that I am pretty and most pretty girls are taken and he assumed that I would shut him down so he never approach me but when I said "Hi" to him he was very flatter and he thought it was cool that I made the first move most shy guys will be flatter that you said Hi to them and my motto was when I like someone they know it and why waste time when we can be getting to know each other better so go for it GF tell those shy guys "Hi" and they will be very flatter that you made the first move :)
Good Luck!!!
He may give of the "look of interest" - whatever that means to you - but he is highly unlikely to leave his buddies to pursue you unless you clearly show that you are approachable.
You don't have to ask him for a date, but if you encourage conversation it will go a long ways in your favor.
I have found that when a man is interested and available for a relationship, he will act on that interest, even if it takes some gathering of courage to make the first move. Why? Because he doesn't want to risk passing up a good chance when he sees someone who he thinks might be what he's looking for. Anyone who *would* let that chance go by (especially if she is obviously approachable and friendly) IMO is probably not ready for a relationship for one reason or another.