Ready to crack

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Registered: 01-05-2004
Ready to crack
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 12:52pm
For those of you who may remember, I broke up with my love interest of five months when he told me he wasn't ready to be exclusive. That was a bit past three weeks ago now no phone calls, emails, nothing. After a long stalemate, he called on Monday night and left a voicemail at my work. He said that he wanted to call and let me know that he was thinking of me and had been thinking of me on Valentine's Day because he thought I should know that.

Why do guys call their exes and say things like this anyway? Men!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 02-18-2004 - 12:58pm
UGH














So he can make you feel that you made the wrong choice and want his sorry butt back again but thank goodness you are smart enough to see thru this ruse and kudos to you for dumping a guy that didn't want to be with you in the first place!!! You go Girl :)

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Registered: 02-18-2004
Wed, 02-18-2004 - 1:11pm
No doubt about it guys like to play games just to see how far they can get you to play. I think he called because either he was regreting his decision or he just wanted to see if you were still waiting around for him. In my opinion I think you need to show him that you are ok with the decision he made and that you are surviving...with or without him. By you acting upset and confused...he has you exactly where he wants you.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 02-18-2004 - 1:18pm
"Why do guys call their exes and say things like this anyway?"

because they want to get laid.