Whatsup???

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Whatsup???
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 6:20pm
My man and I have been togetrher for almost 6 months, we are open to eachother and our sex life is out of this world. thats the problem. The only time I see him is when sex is involved. We both work full time plus he's in school, obviosly time for eachother is hard to find. I want to go on a date we've only had one-our first. I have even bet him a chess game and lost so I could take him out. He has time to drive 2 hours away to visit his buddies, but I've never met his friends. I know he isnt cheating, but is it worth it?
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Registered: 06-13-2003
In reply to: fallout2ooo
Wed, 02-18-2004 - 6:34pm
Only you can answer your question "Is it worth it?" Everyone's busy. People make time for what they want to make time for, and people behave and make choices according to their priorities and values. Why not discuss this with him? By going along with it your behavior is saying you're ok with it as is. If it's just about sex, you want to know that, right? Because if you're looking for more but he isn't (with you) then you should know that so you can move on and find someone who's interested in a more well-rounded relationship. That's my 2¢.