Tough Decision
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Tough Decision
| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 7:13pm |
I seperated from my husband of thirteen years 8 months ago and moved across the country. Closer to family. This is our third seperation. Our trust in each other was lost and our communication broke down. This was the same reason of our other seperations. We have recently been talking on the phone and went away on vacation together, we had a great time and it felt right being together again. He has asked me to move back to my home town, but I like where I am currently living. I am very torn on what to do, and unsure of making the move back across the country and taking the risk of our relationship/marriage not working out. We both love each other but is that enough to repair the damage? I have also met someone in my new area of living which has shown me what it is like to trust and communicate with again. Which has opened my eyes up to what it is like to have that again in a relationship. He is a great guy and I like being with him but I am not sure if he is "the one".
Please help!
Torn & Confused
Please help!
Torn & Confused
Signatures On
| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 7:18pm |
You dont say if you have children or not. I think thats a big deciding factor. Would you be going back to him for love, or because it is what is familiar and safe? Obviously, the safety net probably isnt the right choice.
