In Love with a Widower
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In Love with a Widower
| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 12:19am |
I started talking to a man online that is a widower. We hit it off great, we talked on the phone everynight for hours. We went out on two dates and the second one we got into making out and touching each other. The next day he didn't call, so I called him to find out what was going on and he never answered. I was very upset. Two days later I received an email from him saying he couldn't handle how he felt the next day and wasn't ready for the feelings he was having. He said he felt like he was cheating on his late wife. My question is what should I do, I think I am really in love with him and don't want to let him go. I received an email which was short and sweet and then a few instant messages. What should I do to keep him??
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I would tell him to stop contacting you. He is not ready to date you, and you obviously want more than friendship, so I think that is the only option. Find someone who is ready for a relationship - this guy isn't.