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| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 9:56am |
I knew of a guy that my best friends sister had been dating. They had just recently broken up within the past two weeks. My ex-boyfriend and I had broke up about two months ago. I see this guy out one night and we started to talk and then left the bar together to hang out. Since then we have hung out two times within the past week and have talked every day on the phone. No one but one of my friends knows this is going on, not even my best friend. We are sneaking around right now because he knows my ex-boyfriend and his brother, and his ex-girlfriend is my best friend's sister. We have so much fun when we are together and he is the first guy that I enjoy talking to and hanging out with since I broke up with my ex. However, I feel like I should not be doing this because of my best friend and the fact that her sister still loves this guy. Should I continue on and see if anything serious happens? Do I say anything to anyone about this or do I just keep it quiet? Or do I end things now?
Please help
Utterly confused

I once dated a friend's ex, and I regret it. It ruined our friendship. Even though SHE was the one who set us up, I think she felt weird about it and things were never the same with us after that. So I won't do that, ever again. And I think that dating your best friend's sister's ex is similarly dangerous.