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Registered: 02-19-2004
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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 12:18pm
I have just recently gotten divorced, but the divorce came as a relief. Well this guy that I had really liked and I knew liked me, began talking to me, and we went out, and we hit it off. But then he backed off making excuses saying that I wasn't ready. I reassured him that I was and ready to be with him. So we went again and again had a great time. But he again began making problems? I have tried to talk to him but, he says we are just too different. What can I do, or should do? Please help...
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Registered: 01-13-2004
In reply to: i_little_roo
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 12:31pm
"he says we are just too different"...

Take his words at face value and get away quick. I did NOT do that the last time and caused myself a bunch of hurt. If he is putting up walls he won't hear what your saying. Save yourself the agony and don't contact.

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In reply to: i_little_roo
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 3:09pm
I agree 100% on this one. He's making the excuses saying you're not ready but in reality, he's not ready.

Let him be.