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relationship dilemma
| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 1:11pm |
I've been divorced for 3 years and have been dating someone for 8 months. He is also divorced, but it's only been 4 months with a 17 month seperation prior to the finalization. We get along very well, have alot of the same interests and goals, we don't argue, everything seems perfect. In the beginning, we both we were not ready for a relationship, but in the last 8 months we have both admitted to having strong feelings for each other. My problem is that he has mentioned that he has always jumped from one relationship to another with no dating in between, and feels like he should date other people. He says that he is not looking for anyone at this time and that he is happy with the way things are with us, but still throws the "I feel like I should date other people" statement in. Is he just scared of commitment at this point? Should I keep seeing him and him only, or should I move on? I don't want to end this, but I'm not sure I can deal with him seeing someone else. Help!!!
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| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 1:19pm |
I would date others if the opportunity arises because it seems he's said more than once that he's interested in that also. At least than you are on an equal basis. He's giving you valuable info about where his heads at. I would be cautious about wanting deeper commitment from this man at this time.
