I snooped...should I confess?
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I snooped...should I confess?
| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 4:05pm |
I was snooping through my boyfriend's palm pilot and found a female co-worker's cell phone number. None of his other co-workers' numbers were in the palm pilot and he does not talk or hang out with this particular female outside of work (that I'm aware of). Now my mind is coming up with all these different scenarios, wondering if he's cheating on me, etc. and it's driving me crazy. Should I confront him about it or leave it alone?

If you have no other cause for suspicion (maybe you do? why were you snooping in the first place?) then I'd forget about it. If you do have other reasons to be suspicious, then that's a different matter.
My feeling about snooping is that if you have that little trust in the context of the relationship that you're stooping to snooping, then you either need to leave the relationship or address the issues, and the only way you can do the latter is by being honest with your partner about who you are and what YOUR issues are.
Edited 2/19/2004 5:17:23 PM ET by zurah
Good for you!