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sex early in a relationship
| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 6:16pm |
Recently I have been starting to date guys and having sex with them soon. Its embarrassing but like within a week of seeing them we hardly have had sex. I enjoy sex and hope Im not coming across as sluty cuz I dont feel I am. The problem is that I hook up with these guys a couple of times and then they just ignore me after or say that they dont want to get involved at that moment. I feel confused because I am a nice girl and I wouldnt have sex if I didnt want to. I am beganing to think that either these guys are completely immature jerks or that I just havent found the right guy and need to hold out. Maybe I am lucky to find out right away that they are just interested in sex. It doesnt bother me that much that they dont want to see me, it just bothers me that they come up with lame excuses or just flat out ignore me. What should I do? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks

Edited 2/19/2004 6:40:29 PM ET by oxy76
I cannot really relate since I cannot imagine having sex with someone outside of a loving, committed, serious relationship and that to me doesn't get established until at least a few months of dating. That's just me though.