how do i get over my ex
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how do i get over my ex
| Thu, 02-19-2004 - 8:51pm |
My ex left me for a 16 year old and did not tell me about her but got my friend to tell me and then all he could tell me was that he was sorry and that he knew he hurt me. he is 23 and i am 21 we been together for 9 and a half years on and off and now he is gone. I want to know what can i do to get over him I am having a hard time and all i do is cry and my mind has him on it 24/7 and i just cant get him off.

First of all, occupy your time with busy things. Begin a project, learn to do something new, go somewhere different... don't sit at home doing nothing but thinking... remember, it only hurts when you think about it.
Second, realize that you deserve better. any 23 year old who would take off with a 16 year old, in my opinion, needs to have his head examined... Consider that he isn't using very wise or logical wisdom... move on, find what you want and what you deserve and be happy. Remember, there are millions of people in the world and half of them are men!
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First of all your not going to get over your ex in one day all you can do is know that you can do better and someday you will realize that he wasn't the one for you in the first place I know that seems so far away now but continue to remind yourself of what a great person you are and its his lost and your gain to someone else that will truly love you for you!!!
And secondly, You should be THANKING this guy for leaving you for a 16 year old. Let me explain. ANY 23 year old guy who gives up a relationship with someone in his same stage of life for a 16 year old CHILD has something sorely, disturbingly wrong with him...not to mention the fact that its illegal. You would NOT WANT a man ...if you can call him that....who would make a choice like this in your life to begin with. He obviously has more issues than you could ever hope to manage/deal with in a relationship with him. Move on knowing that you deserve much much better....and that HE is getting exactly what he deserves.