Break-up, need help-PLEASE!!!!!!
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Break-up, need help-PLEASE!!!!!!
| Fri, 02-20-2004 - 2:57am |
My boyfriend recently broke up with me. We've been together for about a year and have broken up before. We were arguing a lot when we broke up the first time and when we got back together we worked through things and weren't fighting anymore. Things were so great. He actually was talking about future plans of marriage, ect.... This break-up was completely unexpected! I am very hurt because a part of me doesn't want to walk away but, I feel I have to if he truely doesn't want me there. His reasoning for breaking up is that he can't handle a relationship right now in his life. He says that he cares for me too much, thinks the world of me and can't handle it. I don't understand how somebody can be so intensly in love and there is constant talk about future and how happy he is and then breaks up just like that. We have not talked at all. It's been about three weeks now, and I'm not as devasted anymore but, I still can't seem to believe it. The situation is constanely on my mind and if not it's in my dreams. Everybody around just says he's going to regret this and you guys will get back together. I don't need to hear that and I don't think so. People usually break up when things are bad, not when they're good. I need some advise so that I can feel somewhat sane and think positive. Please!

He broke up with me right before Christmas. We were growing farther apart, with less in common. I was ready to break up. Now, even tho he ended it and since has insulted me in my face, as if he cant stand me, is trying to get back together with me. I dont want to. The point I am trying to make is, he didnt always handle situations in a straightforward manner, and he loved me and broke up with me. I think most of the time it was because he was scared about getting too close.
Best of luck, try not to worry about it too much.
schiele314