Is he a playa?
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Is he a playa?
| Sat, 02-21-2004 - 4:16pm |
Ok,i've been in a relationship for almost four years now and about 4-5 months ago another man came into my life. He is actually a friend of my bf and his father. NEways,one day my bf and I were fighting and he "dumped" me,and the other guy(cris) found out and called me, saying stuff like "i'll be there for ya" and "if he's just gonna throw u aside like that,i wanna be there to pick you right up"Anyways,after awhile i started to like him back.although i am not sure if he really does like me,or if he just likes my pot(Marijuana). I mean I had a week off from school and my bf didn't,so I invited cris over and he declined saying he would feel bad because he is good friends with the family,and that he wants me all to himself and doesn't want to share me. I'm just not sure he really likes me, I mean I've seen him with my bf's step-mother who is OLD and he acts all flirty with her. And when i tell him i'm all outta pot he was all snapping his eyes at me for a bit,so i just laughed in face everytime,then after awhile he's like well i still like u. I decided to call him and say u should really quit pretending to like me,he really didn't have much to say about that. He was all wondering why i thought that so i told him I feel he is pretending to like me for my Bud(pot,maryjane),then his response was "ok,u have me all figured out Ms.Detective" then silence for a second,then he said "no i wouldn't do that for your bud,i can get it all from my roommate,he has lots. I really do like you and I think u r just trying to find reasons not to like me" So what do ya think ladies? Playa??? Hope to hear responses soon,i'm confused :( because he is sooo flirty. I mean when he flirts with the old lady he all tickles her and says "i wanna make u wiggle" and blows on her ear gently and gives her that look. When he flirts with me he gives me that look,he's even kissed me a few times saying I'm gorgeous and that he is gonna take me from my man real soon,and that he loves hugging and kissing me. But are these all lines just to get me to smoke all my pot with him?? He did do and say this after i told him i didn't have any pot left,but maybe he wants me to keep believing he likes me for the next time i do have pot? Advice greatly appreciated.
Edited 2/22/2004 3:30:03 PM ET by belle7480
Edited 2/22/2004 3:30:03 PM ET by belle7480

I would agree with everyone that he sounds like a straight up player and you should prolly stay clear!!!! He seems to be using you and i wouldnt doubt it if he was using other girls as well.