A good question for the men
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A good question for the men
| Sat, 02-21-2004 - 8:04pm |
A good friend of mine brought this up... why do men come on so strong in the begining and leave just as fast? It's like bam.. your spending everyday together talkin about things you are going to do in the future.. then it's.. bam... we need to slow things down (even though he set the pace) then its wham.. i can't see you anymore. Then it's I miss you.. start talking everyday again.. then it's .. no more phone calls lol, It all happens so fast it makes your head spin and you don't know what hit you? Is it because they are "Relationship addicts" or a sign of a rebound relationship? What do you all think?

If you withold the physical element in the beginning, then he will know, (unless he is a jackass), that you want a serious relationship. The sooner you give it up to him, the less serious he will think you are.
The other factor is timing. Its usually a red flag if you meet someone shortly after they have ended a significant relationship. Don't go overboard for someone who is still recovering.
He probably has some interest in you; moderate or low I am not sure. Most guys I know, don't waste their time getting to know a girl just to be friends. Its usually not a guy thing to actively pursue women for friends.