can he ever love me again?

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Registered: 12-05-2003
can he ever love me again?
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Sun, 02-22-2004 - 4:36am
I NEED YOUR OPINIONS ---- (1st paragraph is asking a question)

when a person is madly IN LOVE with you at one point in a relationship, then later on falls out of love, then breaks up with you because they think they love someone else. . then, several months pass and you rarely speak to eachother (let alone see eachother) and it seems clear (he/she) have no second thoughts. is it possible for someone to fall back in love again. does this happen often to couples in long term relationships (2+yrs). is it more common for men to come back around, or women.

the break-up were ordinary and realistic reasons such as lack of communication and too many problems. Its natural for this to break your heart, and you can only wish that you and your mate can reunite. But in order for this to happen you must let the relationship heal and see other people and explore your options. what do you think?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 7:45am
I think it is a complete waste of time to think of this as other than on a case by case basis - every person and every relationship and every situation is different - all you need to decide is whether in this situation, and given both your feelings, and the previous relationship, risking the time and investment and feelings is worth it. If you truly believe there is a way to generalize about men and women and relationships, that might be a reason why you're not finding ones that work becauce you think they should be consistent with a specific formula.
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 7:45am
I think that sometimes people just fall out of love...simple as that. No amount of time or healing is going to make someone fall back in love.